Rock of Ages!

I know lots of us had guilty-pleasure fun going to check out the movie version with Tom Cruise – I mean, big hair, leather pants, cheesy guitar moves – how can you go wrong?

It’s based on a stage musical, and the musical is coming to Winnipeg next month! I’ve got a pair of tickets for one lucky winner to go to the show – to enter, just tell me your favourite cheesy rock song in the comments (video links = even better!) I’ll take entries for one week – winner announced on the 16th!

To get you in the right mood:

If you’re not the lucky winner, the show’s running from December 11 – 13th at the Centennial Concert Hall – tickets here!

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    1. I forget the auothr, but I really like the Eat This, Not That series. It’s a wake up call for how many calories really are in a lot of restaurant dishes. Other than that, I guess the eat less, more more cliche has worked the best for me. It’s mostly about attitude and persistence anyway.

    1. and the hundreds of pages of regdanis i have to read and catch up on.recently, i was logged into my girlfriends online chat, and i found out that she was talking with another guy asking if he could get her some vodka to take to a hotel for a school event with thousands of coeds. she was going to attend. she told him that she and her friend (female) were going to have the a room to themselves in hotel and get totally f*cked up. When i read this, i was completely devastated. Nothing but horrific images came to my mind and i felt betrayed in a way because i have always trusted her, and we have had serious talks about drinking alcohol and about partying before. And to see this thing going on behind my back is devastating to me. the next day i tried to hint it out if she could tell me if she was planning something behind my back or is she was thinking of doing something. she kept denying it but i knew she didn’t want to admit it. i finally broke out and told her i knew about her plans and that i cannot trust her anymore if she was going to do these kinds of things behind my back. yet instead of feeling any sorrow for the promises she broke and heartbreak she caused, she gets mad at me for spying on her. i do respect her privacy but this time i felt suspicious of her and consequently caught her in the act. so she tells me that she does not want to hear or talk to me ever again forever. i took that comment to the heart and felt as if she was breaking up with me. so then i told her we were done . then shecompletely flips out on me and basically talks sh*t about me and how im not good enough for her. blah blah .. so then later that evening i asked if we could talk and work it this problem. and i apologized to her and everything (even though it wasnt my fault) and she wouldnt take me back. she decided we should just be friends for a while and take a break.i really love her and this is the first time we have ever crossed the line of breaking up, but i just want to fix things with her. but all she tells me is that its my fault for breaking up with her. and im the one being blamed for everything, when in reality, it was she that was doing things behind my back and she basically broke it off with me (by telling me she does not want anything to do with me anymore ever again) .. all i did was say we’re done and now im being blamed for everything.i have been trying to fix things with her and she told me that she wants a break (no communication, no texting, email, nothing whatsoever) until the time is right. after a day or two she sent me a couple messages saying hi and we talked, then the day after we hung out. and we ended up kissing, everything had gone great, romantic dinner, fun evening, happy conversations then the next day she emails me saying that she still feels that im a complete asshole for breaking up with her and that we should go on a break again. this really breaks my heart because i feel as if i have become a complete stranger to her and she calls me by my first name now as if im some random guy talking to her.. im just really scared that she wants to go on this break so that she could move on and forget about me. i really dont know what to do anymore. she keeps bringing up the fact that i broke up with her when in fact it was her fault and i only feel worse about myself for something i shouldnt even be getting blamed for. i really want this relationship to workout for us and i want to put all this mess behind us but she doesnt see it that way and she doesnt want to talk or see me anymore.i want to fix things with her but i dont know how. she wants space but i want to talk and fix things. i really believe we can both work this out by communication, but shes giving me the silent treatment. what should i do???

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      1. Dude, of course she’s going to be angry at you.1. You contniue to tell her you’re going to get help and sort your problems then go back to her and make all the mistakes over again. You’ve lost her trust and respect.2. You threatening to kill or harm yourself (especially repeatedly) isn’t going to win any contests, particularly with your ex. Women, or anyone really, hates people who harp on about how miserable their life is and how they wish they could end it. Everyone has bad things happen to them! How you handle it is the part that matters! Put it this way: There are people out there with terminal illness that would do anything to be in your shoes but you just wanna go and off yourself? That’s low in anyone’s book and a cowards way out.3. Get off the meds, get off the depression high and pull yourself together! (I’d be using swear words right now if they weren’t censored!) Women want strong men that they know will be able to look after them! Get yourself right and stop making mistakes that you keep promising you won’t make anymore! She’s tense around you because you’re a mess and doing nothing to right the situations you keep repeating! Get out of your stupid rut and stop feeling sorry for yourself! Bottom line, you’re a good guy by the sounds of things. You know what’s right from wrong and what you should be doing, but obviously not HOW to do it. Take some time away from each other and work on yourselves so that when you do see each other, you’ll appreciate it more and you’ll be more stable in your own hearts and mind. Absence does make the heart grow fonder.

    1. Okay, here goes.1) You have to decide if punihsg this suit against the police is worth the stress grief you will face if you don’t win. I realize the injustice of the man walking free my heart goes out to you, but right now, everything that you feel, your baby feels. Will you be able to get past it if you should loose your case?2) Sit down make a list of everything negative or weighing you down in your life get rid of it fast. If it’s feelings, meditate on things being different. Decide to feel good today then just do it.3) Plan, plan, plan. The baby will be here soon you need to make sure that you are there in every way for this little one. Are you emotionally available? Or is there too much blah in your spirit after all you’ve been through? You have to get rid of the baggage, not only for your baby but for yourself.Some things you could try: Centering Grounding, Meditation, Pouring yourself into a hobbie (take a pottery course or something), journaling, positive thinking (lie to yourself if you have to, telling yourself that things are FANTASTIC. Eventually your life will change because your views changed you changed. Here in the states we have a saying: fake it til you make it. Good Luck, e mail me if you need any help on anything I suggested or if you just need a chat.

  1. Definitely “Pour some sugar on me” – Def Leppard

    Thanks so much for this chance to win. My husband and I would love to go. 🙂

  2. My vote for super cheesy = “Two out of three ain’t bad” – Meatloaf

    Thanks so much for this chance to win. My wife Michelle and I would love to go. 🙂

    1. As all things about resihaonltips and emotions, yours is a difficult question and a painful situation.Obviously you still love her and value the relationship. But consider that she may feel different. There is no need of infidelity or abuse to break a relationship. Anyone can feel at one time that is tired, that is not loving the other person anymore or that she/he changed in a different way and the relationship does not fit in that new scheme.You sound a bit anxious. Five sessions of MC is too small time to expect big changes.You may consider wait and give her space and time to think and feel about what she really wants.Maybe she was too young or too inmature when you went together, or she just wanted other things in life.Try to think about what changes have happened since then: she started to study, or finished studies, or started in a new job, or with new friends? That could have produced changes in her feelings towards you and the relationship.Another factor is that you mentioned that you lived together for 7 years and then married and after 1 year she wants divorce. Well, that is VERY common. When you are living with someone but you are not married, you always feel that there is a door: you can use it to feel free and even get free anytime you need. But when you marry, some people begin to think that now the knot is too tight. They can feel fed up and even scared.What changed when you two got married? Did you begin suddenly to meet parents and relatives, or do your relationship change in another way?Give her space, give her time, assure her that you’ll be there for her and that you’ll accept and respect whatever she decides some people need to feel free in order to commit themselves. Don’t push too much, or you’ll loose her

    2. He’s a drug user, a cheat, a liar, and he’s abusive. Why would you let him back into your life, and those of the kids?It is guilt tnialkg, when he blames you for what happened. It’s something very common with cheaters. And the fact that he does blame you, means he would have no guilt about doing it again, because it would still be your fault and not his. Until he owns his responsibility, you have no chance of keeping him faithful.Using his family is also common. He wants what he wants now, he was not going to give you time to realise you were better off without him. He can’t see why, even though HE walked out, HE cheated, why HE can’t come home and do just what HE wants. For him, it is all about him. And now he has what he wants, has seen that he can manipulate you, he has no respect for you, and feels he can do what he pleases, and you will put up with it.If he really wanted to be with you, why did he get abusive, once he got what he wanted? It’s because he doesn’t think of you as a person, just an object to blame his failings on. And that’s not going to change. He is selfish and immature. Your only choices are to shut up and put up with it, or kick his sorry a*s to the kerb.Try to do the right thing for you, and your kids. Protect them and yourself, and do it sooner rather than later. Its not going to get any better.

    1. that he wouldn’t leave me coz he knew that he wodnult be able to find a girl who loves him so much like I do, and a girl so nice like how i amFinally, last week he decided to break up. His reason is that he has lost the love feelings; that he feels very guilty when i treat him nice coz he has no motivation to do something for me, and that he can’t go on being my bf without the love feelings although he still cares bout me v. muchI dont blame him, coz i know tat he’s very busy and tired at work. I wonder if he really doesnt love me or only his work makes him very frustrated. But anyway, i love him so much that i dont wanna give up yet.I need your advices on what i should do. Coz there are pros and cons for all the choices, and i dont know what is better for getting him back, i dont know what guys think.1.Ignore him, not contacting him, not being clingy. So that he may realize that he has lost me in his life and he may realize how important im. But the risk is that he will be more used to the life without me, and that his feelings will be cooled down.2.being his friend but not begging him back. So that he may know that im always here for him, im his soulmate, i wanna take care of him and that im friendly. The risk is that he may really think that im his friend and that our love story is over.3.Not ignoring him nor being his friend. But reminding him once in a while that i miss him, i m waiting for him.. and do little things to touch him. I wonder if this is clingy and annoying.4.go to see him in my coming vacation. I have vacations soon and i’d like to see him and give us a last try. I always wonder if his love feelings will be back if we meet again. However, he has rejected this idea coz he doesnt wanna prolong our pains. Im afraid that he may not welcome me i dont know what I should do. Can anyone give me some advices on these ideas besides asking me to give up? I love him so much, and i wanna do everything i can to get him back. Plis help me.

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    1. I really dont know what to do or ?How to rvseloe this, Your help or advice would be great. Please be sensitive as I am feeling quite low.Back in 2005 an abusive ex was arrested for beating up another woman, he was immediately given 15 months in prison (he did 9 months of the sentence) not only was I appalled at his actions, but it meant he had cheated/lied to me to have been with her. This was my que to have a fresh start. I was working at a gym, did an access to nursing course (worked very hard to study and have a job and manage my flat, finances etc) I also met a great guy that I worked with. I wrote to the bad guy in prison and told him I had moved on. For once I was happy. Me and the new man had a great few months, I was enjoying my studies, got in to an amazing nursing college, was happy and getting self esteem back and this new guy treated me great. In June 06, the toxic man was released from prison (I had ignored his calls and letter) he knew I was in a relationship. Yet, still turned up at my home un invited. He could see I was going places, was happy and had moved on. He was trying every trick in the book to win me back but I told him I was with someone and happy. He didnt listen. In Sept 06 he came to my home and violently raped me. I have had psychological counselling. But because of what he did I pushed the good guy away. I didnt even tell him what had happened as I was too ashamed. Eventually at some point in 2007 our relationship fizzled (down to me being down, unreliable and not myself). Yet, it was only in 2008 that I came forward to police about the rape and abuse as I was not ready to deal with it until then. I had left my University nursing course, I had depression and frankly my life was a mess (still is). The rape trial was due to be 22nd Feb this year, but due to police negligence (they lost one of my video statements) and a catalogue of errors the case was thrown out of court by the judge! Not only has this man destroyed my life and saw that I was moving on and happy and did what he could to ruin it, but he walks free from court for what he did. The nice guy has moved on and is engaged and happy, and I am left picking up the pieces of my life. The last 4 years have been sheer hell. I had a brief relationship in the summer and I am now 7 months pregnant, I just feel like my life is a total mess and dont know what to do to get back to my old self.I am currently in the process of suing the police but the injustice of all this is awful Please help, thanksIm strongly against abortion / murder! my baby is wanted.

    1. I have a different pcsepretive that many of the people that have answered may not agree. First of all, I read all your previous posts (I’m guessing that no one else did). What your ex made your son do is called an EXERCISE! If your son plays football or baseball, this stance is par for the course. And basketball coaches have been known to make players do this EXERCISE for entire practices. 20 or 30 minutes is a slap on the wrist.I coach several sports, and all my teams have policies that negative reports from teachers or parents warrants additional EXERCISE during practice. So we would have punished your child for 2 hours, not 20 minutes. So after your son’s legs started shaking and he swore to God he couldn’t stand any more we would make him lay on his back and raise his legs 6 inches for 20 or 30 minutes until he begged us to get in the 2 point stance again. This ma’am is called FOOTBALL PRACTICE not child abuse. There have been many of single mothers that have drug their child kicking and screaming to our practices begging not to tell the coaches that they got in trouble at home or school. And our team has several officers from the Los Angeles Police Department as coaches and parents. These same police officers are dishing out these punishements. So you added that your ex spanked him. Spanking your child is not illegal or abusive, and he would not be removed from the home for such an incedence. From your previous post, you say dad does not usually spank and if your son plays for your ex, then it’s safe to say that they are close. So your ex punished him in a fashion that he will not soon forget. I am willing to bet you that your son will not miss assignments anytime in the near future.

    1. don’t buy 1 single pernest buy lots of little ones, chocolas etc. but i don’t no exactly what he means , and what i could get her. Her birthday is on Monday, i know i should have bought her a presi by now but i been thinking about it and still don’t know what to get Her. my new idea is, a rose, chocolates and a free back massage from me. but i duno how’d she’d react to that idea, as i’m only 15 and she’s only 15. but please advice people?ye i was thinking making something for her, but i don’t no what :Swe’ve een 2gether just over a month, but she means loads to mei mean i’m thinking i can;t just get her a CD or a DVD or something like that, because it seems a bit borng, like i’ve bought her something not bothered making an effort on itshe loves disney films and the colour pink, as for does she like romantic things i’m not to sure, i havn’t had the chance to be romantic with her :S

    1. he doesn’t want things to get worse, and that he needs tto make heimslf better so he would have something to offer when the time he wants to settle down. He also said were not growing together.. but its not all my fault, he always doesnt have a job.. always angry because of his family problems and venting it out on me my only flaw is im quite possessive.. anyway to make the story short.. we had a really complicated relationship.. until he broke up. I was so devastated but i never thought it would be a serious breakup.. it took me a month before i called him because i canot last more days i miss him so bad.. but he was firm that he is finally decided to breakup. he still loved me but its not enough to make it work.. i cried..i tried even to commit suicide (which i know is pathetic) but i didnt really do it.. i literally begged for him to take me back. he said it was too late, (what?its only been a month!) and that he is happy and is enjoying his freedom. he offered friendship. i accepted it rather than losing him completely.. it was so hard because i found out he was dating his ex gf.. the girl already had 2 kids and is married but separated.. they accidentally met at the mall and exchanged numbers.. both of them just broke up from relationships so it was easier for them to flirt w/ each other.. he kept denying they had a thing..he kept denying he liked her.. he kept denying that she was the reason why he broke up because they met 2 weeks after we broke up. but i saw pictures.. the girl was always messaging on his facebook and commenting but if it was sweet my ex would delete it. until i finally saw the girl’s profile picture in facebook, that it was the 2 of them together.. i called my ex again and told him he doesnt have to lie to me because were no longer in a relationship i dont get the point of not telling me the truth. it he wants her go ahead ill be happy for them, i just want to know so i would leave them alone.. but again he denied. after that incident my ex would always call me frequently again until it was everyday we see each other..its as if were a couple again but not much sweetness and no commitment or ilove u’s .. lately, he always calls me he even went to my bday last february even if he knows my parents dont like him.. and he’s got a big ego and pride. so thats a big deal for him to do to show up and deal w/ my parents.. last sunday he went w/ me and my family to hear a mass and have dinner.. i dont have the courage to ask him why he’s doing these because the last time i did, he said that he was just being friendly.. that was right after we broke up.. but now its getting me confused again.. and to make things worse he is leaving next month to california ( i am from philippines) to go to his mom and work.. when we’re together he always play w/ my hair, hold or rub my back.. something like those gestures but never talks about US. He just asked if i was gonna follow in america like 5 times.. but i kept answering WHY? i mean why would i follow u im not ur gf anymore right? it just hurts because when im finally ok there he is again giving me the mixed signals.. i wanna confront him but im afraid because i dont want to part ways with hard feelings.. im racing against time.. i dont know what to do is he still interested in me? if so then why is he still not asking me back?????? is he still not ready? was he really that burnt from our relationshp or he’s enjoying his freedom. anyway i found out from a common friend that he stopped talking to the other girl 2 months ago. and that they really didnt have a relationship.. some flirting only.. help me.. i need opinions.. what should i do ..i tried my best to prove to him that i can change im no longer possessive/clingy or nagger i did change alot.. for the better.. yesterday he called me up, he said his mom is asking about me.. if we were always still fighting or arguing.. he said that we no longer argue.. then he called me awhile ago to tell me that he is going to have a 2-3 day vacation and will call me when he gets there.. what stings here.. is that he is acting like my bf again but not really formally getting back. im confused so much.. what stings more is that i know he’s leaving soon.. its like im getting used to him with me again.. then in a snap of a finger he’s gonna leave for good doesnt know when will be back and thats it.???????obviously i still love him.. despite all the pain.. and heartaches i would still take him back.. but he needs to be the one to get back with me coz he broke up w/ me i tried my best to win him back but he gives mixed answers..sometimes he would say he doesnt want to, sometimes he doesnt want it yet argghhhhh if he’s doing these to help him get over me..its weird..wouldnt he even miss me more if he’s still seeing n talking w/ me? how can i move on as well if he keeps doing these?

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    1. How do I get back to the old me?I really dont know what to do or ?How to rolvsee this, Your help or advice would be great. Please be sensitive as I am feeling quite low.Back in 2005 an abusive ex was arrested for beating up another woman, he was immediately given 15 months in prison (he did 9 months of the sentence) not only was I appalled at his actions, but it meant he had cheated/lied to me to have been with her. This was my que to have a fresh start. I was working at a gym, did an access to nursing course (worked very hard to study and have a job and manage my flat, finances etc) I also met a great guy that I worked with. I wrote to the bad guy in prison and told him I had moved on. For once I was happy. Me and the new man had a great few months, I was enjoying my studies, got in to an amazing nursing college, was happy and getting self esteem back and this new guy treated me great. In June 06, the toxic man was released from prison (I had ignored his calls and letter) he knew I was in a relationship. Yet, still turned up at my home un invited. He could see I was going places, was happy and had moved on. He was trying every trick in the book to win me back but I told him I was with someone and happy. He didnt listen. In Sept 06 he came to my home and violently raped me. I have had psychological counselling. But because of what he did I pushed the good guy away. I didnt even tell him what had happened as I was too ashamed. Eventually at some point in 2007 our relationship fizzled (down to me being down, unreliable and not myself). Yet, it was only in 2008 that I came forward to police about the rape and abuse as I was not ready to deal with it until then. I had left my University nursing course, I had depression and frankly my life was a mess (still is). The rape trial was due to be 22nd Feb this year, but due to police negligence (they lost one of my video statements) and a catalogue of errors the case was thrown out of court by the judge! Not only has this man destroyed my life and saw that I was moving on and happy and did what he could to ruin it, but he walks free from court for what he did. The nice guy has moved on and is engaged and happy, and I am left picking up the pieces of my life. The last 4 years have been sheer hell. I had a brief relationship in the summer and I am now 7 months pregnant, I just feel like my life is a total mess and dont know what to do to get back to my old self.I am currently in the process of suing the police but the injustice of all this is awful Please help, thanks

    2. I love you to, but i then found out from a previous girl that he had slept with that they were seeing one another and he use to tell he loved her all the time. We were on holiday this summer and were both ill with a travellers diarrhea and we had antibiotics and when we came back he said he was still ill and he went to the doctors and had tests and they said he had a bacteria infection caused by food and when I said I will claim on the insurance or the hotels insurance he got very angry about it and said he had no doctors notes or proof coz he threw it all away and then he was like I don’t want you to claim and got in a mood. This same week he had 700 pounds taken out of his back account and I quizzed him coz I had this done to me in the past and I asked him what the bank had said. He said that they weren’t really doing much about it, even tho he had shown them proof he didn’t spend the money and he said he doesn’t think he will get it back! He said he travels around to different countries with work and when we first got together he said he might be going to china, but this never happen, then he said Siberia and this never happened. He Recently told me he was going to china with work for 3 weeks so when he was meant to be there I rang his company up and he was in England and when I said could I speak to Andrew ****** the project design manager, they said “what? Who are you after? “. Which seemed weird to me. I confronted him about the china thing and he said im going tonight the flight was cancelled they hadn’t got back to us about us going even tho he had told me the week before it was all finalised. Then later on in the conversation he told me he was going the following week, but he didn’t. He also said you have to write an invitation to be aloud to go into china from england on business is this true? We had arranged to go the cinema one night and he blew me off to go clubbing with his mates and gave me lots of excuses. One being he couldn’t go to the cinema with me on the thursday coz he had to work early in the morning on the Saturday, other wise people might lose there jobs and as I live 40 minutes away from him he would have to have left mine in the morning so wouldnt have managed to get to work. That morning I rang him and he was still in bed! I have since broken up with him because he cheated on me for a second time. He did it once before where he was sending flirty texts to a girl (texts sent over a few days) he use to see and he told her he was in Sweden with work and made up this complicated stuff he had to do over there for work, but he was in england with me. He was also arranging to meet up with her one weekend. I fogave him for this and he said he wasn’t a cheater he would never cheat and he wasn’t really going to meet up with her. His excuse for this was that he was mad from an argument we had had that day and he has never ever had an argument in his life not even with his parents or siblings. Then everything was ok until I found more flirty messages from another girl and he was flirting with her so I rang the number and she said they had been to the pub quiz together and had kissed and were texting all week. He admitted to this but said she had kissed her but she says its the other way around. Andrew also said he doesn’t fancy her he just did it.and she had just working at started working at that pub that week, but I know for a fact she started in may because I have since talked to the other bar staff there. I broke with him there and then, but after this I rang him to gets answers to why he did it and because stupidly I would have taken him back because I missed him so much (I am sooooo thankful tht this did not happen) He said he wasn’t seeing this girl and he hasn’t seen her or been to the pub with her because of his medison, then later he changed his story and said they went to the pub in a group. I found out from a friend of mine that knows this girl well, that they didn’t stop texting when we broke up and they went to the cinema not the pub. And she is now not having any of what I say because Andrew w(I missed the end off) This girl doesnt believe me he was cheating on me with her, because andrew told her we had broken up ages ago and has got his brother to lie for him. But she is young and very naive so is taken in by his lies as like me it was what I wanted to believe in even tho I always took it with a pinch of salt. I am concerned that he may have something wrong with him, to lie so much and I think he may believe his own lies. He also told me he loved me more than anything in the world, but I guess that was another one of his lies.Oh and he told me he didn’t like blondes and didn’t fancy small girls, and hates rock and emo music and people ,but the second girl he cheated on me with was small, 5ft3 and has blonde hair and a rocker/emo.Sorry for the essay lol!Could this gut have something wrong with him?Do you not think he could have something wrong with him tho like that compulsive lying thing?

    3. VPO my brothers wife filed a vpo on him for nohitng ,only because hes trying to get custody of kids!?on the petition for a vpo she claimed, that my brother was trying to take baby out of country, nonstop emails and text, all a lie! we have the emails, they are both writing eachother back and forth and get this my brother keeps it short saying lets keep this in court i dont want to talk to you unless its in court because he is fighting for full custody and shes contantly trying to manipulate him through emails, and its her writing 3 page letters saying f-u cussing him out saying she wished he was dead. also she is violent my brother left her because she stabbed him with a knife he has the pics the cops took! can she do this under false accusations?? and what should he do to prepare other than a lawyer! has anyone been through this>???

    1. , what you need to do is do all you can to reassure him that his frdeeom is secure, you do this not by words but by your silence. Silence is golden carries more over on a person than you think. In time the obvious will happen. He will begin to wonder about you, wonder if you love him anymore, wonder if maybe you are making an effort to move on. In order for him to have any incentive to want to come home he needs to fear losing you, right now he has no fear of this and so he is not driven to come back and work on things. And do not be available to him when he does call. If he wants to visit with the children, arrange it so that a relative or friend to be there so that you do not have to face him. Do not display any type of anger, sadness, happiness, just do not let on or her will think it is a manipulation on your part. This is why it is important that he not see you, for he can read you like a book. Do not TALK about feelings, what is on your mind, about your plans, do not allow him any information about you at all. We girls tend to talk too much leaving nothing to the imagination. HE NEEDS TO WONDER. This is not a game, this is how a grown woman who has any respect for herself behaves, she gives a guy that no longer wants to be with her his freeom. Many women have found that once they do this, it is to their surprise how all of a sudden the man WANTS to come back. And sometimes the women ends up not wanting to have him back, some do. Go out and buy that book Love Must Be Tough by Dr. James Dobson, trust me it will help you through this and to get your husband back on the right path in the marriage. And if your budget allows it, it would also benefit you to buy that book, The Proper Care Feeding Of Husbands . this book will get you ready for a great reconcilation for a great start in your marriage. Good luck to you and don’t lose hope! Hugs!

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    1. that he would do anything to get back with me and i didn’t rnposed because I don’t want to be with him.And last night he texted me asking how i was doing and stuff and i told him i was doing fine and he said he was doing fine too but he missed me and then he texted me hey i’ll hit you up later when my girl isn’t texting me. So last night and a little bit this morning i was wondering what he meant.This morning he texted me a few times and I didn’t reply until he accidentally sent me a text saying hey i had fun last night, i love you. He told me he meant to send it to his girlfriend. I didn’t ask who his girlfriend was because I didn’t really care. So he was talking to me about how awesome his girlfriend is and I was acting happy for him because if I acted pissy about it then it would make me look bad. So then he randomly started calling me ugly and gross and stuff and I acted like it didn’t phase me. I mean it hurt my feelings a little but I don’t think i’m ugly. It makes my blood boil and i want to tell him what i really think of him.My friend thinks that he is just trying to play games with me and make me jealous so I beg for him back, I mean it sounds like something he would do but I don’t know. I just want him to leave me alone.So what i’m asking is that whats the right thing to do in this situation? Should i yell at him and call him ugly, continue what i was doing or something else?Please help.

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